DEAR MARIANN: Every year I dread the holidays more, especially as I have entered middle-age. The monetary expectations to give gifts, host parties, over-decorate and shop at crowded malls has become overwhelming. What can I do to regain my enthusiasm for what was once a joyous season?
Dear Mariann: Last month, I was attending Sunday morning church service. A man in the pew directly in front of me answered his ringing cell phone and rather than exiting the sanctuary to take the call, engaged in conversation right there in his seat during the midst of the sermon. Your thoughts, please.
Dear Mariann: My teenage daughter has declining grades and I’ve noticed that alcohol in my cabinet is missing, how can I approach her with this problem?
DEAR MARIANN: Can adults be diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)? My 42-year-old husband and I have major communication issues primarily due to his inability to listen when I am telling him something important. He hears the first few words and then seems to “tune out.” What can I do besides nag at him for his inattentiveness?
DEAR MARIANN: “How do I motivate my 12-year-old to study when she always seems bored in school and lacks interest in her classes?
DEAR MARIANN: How do I stay sane during this continuous campaign bombardment of political ads?
DEAR MARIANN: After several decades of marriage, it ended a few years ago. During that time I was always very close to one of my ex-spouse’s family members. Now suddenly that has changed and I am saddened by the loss. What can I do?
DEAR MARIANN: Is depression hereditary? MARIANN’S RESPONSE: As with many diagnoses specific to mental health, there is a genetic component, including that for depression. Anyone with a parent or relative who has depression, or suffers from bi-polar disorder, substance abuse, schizophrenia, or a gamut of anxiety-related disorders, can inherit that same psychological make-up.